my children always don't obey that what I said @ 三太子的部落格

I was think about why my children always don't obey that what I said.

Is my word not clear enough? or I just use the wrong way? I worry about is cause all my own problem.

However I think I must be change that situation.

I have to try improve parent-child relationship. What can I do the first?

I learn from friends(like Sunny/水果妹/雅淑) than I give respect to my children when I talk to them. And they respond me with gentle way. I realize that everyone expect be treated with respect including child. This change is work when I prove it on yesterday night.

The second thing is I need to affect my husband(銓哥) to do same way.

Actually this is hard of part for me. But I have to try my best until he also do that way, or that may decrease rate of success, and drive me crazy again.